My first-time naked experience was when I had turned 23 and merely moved to Monterey, CA for a brand new job. I was researching the area prior to starting my job in a couple of weeks, and also the previous Saturday had detected a nude beach along the Big Sur Coast and chose to go there the next week.
I arrived quite early in the morning, made the half mile trek down to the nude section and found a good spot about 20 yards down the beach from an old couple and also a young gentleman who were already down there. I was VERY nervous and decided I’d take it step by step. In the meantime, more people started to populate the beach and shortly there was a gentleman about my age only fifteen feet away from me laying out nude reading a book.
Time passed and one hour at the shore and I still couldn’t get up the nerve. Finally the guy near me looks over at me, nods “hello” then asks me if I’d enjoy a cold beer. I accepted, and to my surprise he got up and dragged his towel and all his property right next to me, reached in his cooler, snatched a couple beers then introduced himself and handed me a beer. Among the first things he said was “This is your first time at a nude beach, isn’t it?” I said yes and he immediately said there was no need to worry- no one was going to stare at me or do anything if I took off my shirt and boxers.
So, VERY furtively away came my boxers but my top stayed on. He laughed and said “Now that wasn’t so bad, was it?” I laughed and we continued to discuss. Despite the fact that the boxers were now away, I was sitting up with my knees pulled tightly to my chest, arms wrapped around my legs. Well, “it” occurred almost immediately and I promptly rolled over on my belly, only to hear a little laugh and “Do Not worry- occurred to me my first time also” from my new-found friend.
Within a couple hours I was completely comfortable and was tossing around a frisbee, walking up and down the beach, and even got invited into a game of Scrabble by a nearby couple. Regrettably, the place where I worked in CA went out of business and I moved back to Michigan where nude beaches are non existent and anti-nudity laws are rigorously enforced on public lands. I really wish there was a landed, private nude beach on Lake Michigan! I ‘d be there every weekend!
Grand Haven, Michigan
A LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE
My wife of 29 years died of cancer. She was raised strict Southern Baptist, so occasionally being nude at home was O.K., but she would have never considered social nudity.
Singles clubs were uncomfortable, so I began taking short weekend excursions to get out of the home.
Any of these excursions found me near Panama City, Florida, about four hours from home. I had seen the Baybares website, so out of interest I called and asked if a single man would be admitted. When the nice sounding lady on the phone welcomed me, I asked directions. The nerves grew as I discovered and proceeded along the sandy drive to the club. I almost turned around three times, but there clearly was no place to turn without becoming stuck in the sand. Then I came to the cable across the road that indicated the clubhouse entry where I was met by a cordial guy wearing a towel around his waist. He let me in, showed me where to park and asked me to sign in at the clubhouse.
The nervousness escalated exponentially as I parked and started the walk to the clubhouse. There, by the pool was a amazing woman sunning completely bare. She flashed me a delightful smile, presented herself as Gloria and started to chat with http://xoxet.com . I couldn’t believe how relaxed she was, even though she was totally naked. Then I continued to sign in, pay my reasons fees, and be given a simple synopsis of the rules and etiquette of the club.
After taking a huge breath, I took off the last of my clothes. They treated me like a long lost cousin who had returned home.
It was a wonderful weekend, plus it provided just the familiarity with friendly people which I wanted so urgently at that point of my own life. Gloria will never know what a great gift her smile and friendly conversation was to a lonely stranger. It gave me the courage to return to my car, undress, and start the next phase of my own life as a nudist among some of the friendliest, most welcoming people on earth.
I remarried a year after and my new wife came to realize how important societal nudity was to me. After a year of marriage she graciously chose to participate as well. She appreciates our excursions to Cypress Cove when we can get away a few times annually.
My only sorrow is that I waited so long to find the wonderful experience of social nudism and how friendly folks are at nudist clubs.
Nude at the seashore
It was early and when I arrived, several people were already enjoying their nakedness. I looked around and slipped off my top & short pants and in an instant, standing bare and enjoying it. Nobody stared or gawked and for the next three hours I appreciated the freedom of no clothes. Perhaps next time, I will have a guest join me
The single thing that irritated me
My first nudist experience was when my partner and I went with friends to Cypress Cove in Florida. Having lived in Fla many years, I was use to miniature swim wear and extreme sun. So the transition to no clothing and intense sun was easy. That’s until I reached for my pocket knife in my pocket. I used to not have one! Pocket that’s. Now without both my pockets and knife I was in a quandary.
Once I had overcome my lack of http://nudists-young.org , the friendliness, ease, independence, and openness at the resort made the weekend very gratifying. We’ve been back several times and I’m looking forward to our next trip there next week.
Our first encounter being socially naked was in 1998. We had as often as possible been nude privately at home for a long time since the day we were wed but we’d no notion what social nudism was about until we detected it online. Being born again believers in God, we still felt that nudism proved to be a right, great, and healthy lifestyle.
After driving through the gate one Saturday morning in June, the sight of so many naked people was at first phantasmagoric. We checked in at the office, and were introduced to a naked host couple who would give us a tour of the property. We undressed and toured the grounds. Individuals were swimming, playing tennis, grilling and just relaxing as at any resort in a park-like setting. There was an indoor and an outdoor pool, a hot tub, a hiking trail, snack bar, gift shop, etc.
It absolutely was our first time swimming nude, and we’ve never worn a swimsuit since that day. As the male half of this couple I can declare that there clearly was no humiliation with an erection that I had prior concerns about. You will always have a towel as a back-up just in case. We have never seen that become an issue for anybody.
We now see White Tail Resort in Ivor, VA consistently, as it’s our favorite nudist resort. The folks are extremely friendly there. White Tail is a family oriented resort attended by folks of all ages. To be bare all weekend, and to awaken and walk outside bare in the morning and feel sunlight and the atmosphere all over your naked body is pure ecstasy. We currently vacation at nudist resorts virtually entirely.
Our other favored nudist resorts comprise Cedar Creek, Serendipity Park, Cypress Cove, and Lake Como. All these resorts are family oriented resorts and are recorded on the AANR website. We all know that we are safer at a nudist resort than at a hotel. The easiness at a nudist resort is beyond any other we have ever experienced. The practice of social nudism has been a lifesaver as a result of pressure relief we appreciate while naked.
One day naked around other people enjoying life in this wholesome environment is similar to a week in a luxury clothed resort. For those who haven’t experienced social nudism then do not deny yourself this experience. Nudism is a genuine retreat from the uptight and pretentious fabric society we live in.
When we see individuals of all ages playing sports, having a meal together or just unwinding nude among friends, our only regret is that we didn’t start this wonderful lifestyle earlier.
-Captain & Candy